This is a note from 22 Nov 2013.
After a day’s stroll through Delhi’s streets together with a friend of mine, a particular scene stayed on my mind. Since my arrival in India, I have noticed an absence of women at food stalls. There are many women who sell vegetables and jewellery along the streets but when it comes to the preparation and selling of food, I had never encountered a woman being in charge of it before. Yet, today, in a rather quiet street close to Jhandewalan Metro Station and almost in front of a secondary all-boys school, there, I saw a woman and a man working together at the same food stall preparing chapatti.
Immediately, my attention was caught by this sight. How unusual for a public space, I thought, whereas inside, at home, it is mostly women cooking – and not only in India. She stays on my mind, her long grey hair and deep blue saree – or rather her smile and shiny eyes. At least that is how I remember her now.